If you've ever stood in front of a camera and thought "what do I do with my hands?" — you're not alone. Most people don't love being photographed. The good news? Looking natural in a professional headshot isn't about being photogenic. It's about working with a photographer who knows how to guide you so you show up as your best self.
As an Auckland-based corporate headshot and personal branding photographer, I've photographed hundreds of business owners, creatives and professionals who've said things like "I hate the way I look in photos" or "my photos never look natural." Here's how I help.
You focus on feeling good — I'll take care of the rest
Your expression is what people connect with first, so that's your only job. I'll take care of positioning, lighting and angles to make sure everything looks flattering and natural. During the session, I'll gently guide you so it never feels rushed or forced.
Tip: Lean slightly towards the camera — not away from it. It feels odd, but it reads as confident and approachable.
Micro-movements make magic
Between shots, I'll guide you through tiny movements — a small shift of your chin or your weight. These subtle adjustments help you avoid awkward angles and double chins, keeping everything natural and flattering.
Pro insight: If it feels a bit awkward, you're probably doing it right. (And yes, I'm a bit of a perfectionist about this — I earned my Master's in Photography studying portraiture at a pretty serious level, so you're in safe hands.)
Wear clothes that feel like you
The fastest way to look uncomfortable is to wear something that doesn't feel like you. Confidence comes from comfort. Choose clothes that fit well and reflect how you actually show up professionally — polished, but authentic.
If you're unsure what photographs best, think solid colours, clean lines and natural fabrics. Avoid large logos or busy prints that distract from your face.
Work with a photographer who helps you relax (hi, that's me)
A great headshot isn't just about lighting or angles — it's about trust. The right photographer will guide you through poses, adjust details you can't see, and create an atmosphere that feels easy and human.
My sessions are conversational and collaborative. We chat, test angles, and find your best side together. Most people leave saying, "that was way more fun than I expected."
Remember why you're doing it
The best photos happen when you stop performing for the camera and start showing up for your purpose. It's not about looking perfect; it's about being real. People connect with authenticity — that's who they want to do business with.
Whether you're updating your LinkedIn, launching a new brand, or levelling up your visibility, your photos are an investment in how people perceive you. Focus on confidence and warmth, not perfection, and everything clicks into place.
If you're ready to refresh your image with photos that actually look like you, book a branding or headshot session with me in Auckland. We'll create portraits that feel relaxed, real, and ready to help your business grow.